"Thank God I have not changed like this."
Sadia Faisal caused controversy by pinning the rise in divorce rates on women.
On the FHM Podcast, Sadia spoke about the dynamics of marriage in contemporary society.
She emphasised that despite the evolving societal norms, the core traditions of Pakistani culture remain steadfast and significant.
Host Adnan Faisal asked her: “Is this concept still relevant, that a marriage is between two families rather than two individuals?”
Sadia asserted that marriage is a union between two families, not just between the individuals involved.
She pointed out that women who believe otherwise are likely to face challenges in their marriages, saying:
“The women who say that marriage is just between two individuals, their life is often difficult after marriage.
“We are not foreigners. A marriage can not work like this.”
Sadia further delved into the topic of rising divorce rates in Pakistan.
“I think women have become more intolerant. They are more career-oriented now.
“When women earn more than men, their expectations increase. Thank God I have not changed like this.”
Sadia suggested that as women become more self-sufficient, their tolerance levels decrease.
According to her, this decline in tolerance leads to a lack of compromise. This, she believes, is a primary reason for the uptick in divorce rates.
She elaborated that women’s financial independence often results in an inflated sense of self. According to her, it makes it difficult for marriages to thrive.
The actress expressed concern over the changing dynamics within marriages.
She highlighted that the balance of power and the willingness to compromise are crucial for the longevity of a marital relationship.
Sadia’s comments sparked a conversation about the balance between traditional values and modern independence.
A user said:
“The divorce rate has increased because women now understand that relationships require mutual effort.”
“While women make compromises, men often don’t, as they are not raised to do so. This is where marriages tend to fail.”
Another added: “Wrong. It is because women finally realise their worth and now exercise their Islamic rights.”
One said: “Another entitled privileged woman telling other women to be oppressed in the name of compromise.”
A user questioned: “So is she saying that all women have collectively gone mad for choosing divorce instead of being abused by their husbands?”
One noted: “Such a rubbish choice of words. You have no clue woman! Do your research before you make such statements.”
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