Nicky, displays a fascination with documenting controversial issues. Her hobby of music includes radio presenting, producing, directing music videos and interviewing Bhangra artists. Her motto is “You are your greatest asset. There is nothing you can’t do.”

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  1. Balvinder kaur

    That was a brilliant piece to read, well done Nicky. I could relate very much to the story of Bilquis especially when I was younger. Family pressure as a youngster can be so emense it’s natural you want to rebel.
    The story of Ramanjeet rings true with me now. Being in an environment of all smokers you feel a sense of intimidation to conform to their habits albeit bad. We are smart and educated and are fully aware of the health implications surrounding the topic of smoking.
    Again, well done on an informative article, that too of a topic that’s often brushed under the carpet by most Asian families.
    Look forward to reading more from you.

  2. Bunty

    What a well-written thought provoking article.

    Working with young people I see this issue all the time. There is such a lot of pressure placed on Asian girls to conform to two total extremes – traditional values on one end and Western values on the other. Smoking is a way to break through from the shackles of conformity.

    Thank you for a really interesting article

  3. Mamta

    I dont understand how smoking helps these women from stress etc. Why would you want to damage your health just to fit in with the crowd or look cool. I’m a single parent an been through rough times but never ever thought smoking will help me. There is more asain women smoking an drinking these days. Girls are given alot more freedom these days and its just abused.

  4. kareena

    i dont think the article argues the reasons why asian women smoke fully. it goes on about generation differences too much. i think parents have lost the battle to stop changes like this so generation changes don’t make any difference.

    there are lots of parents that smoke, especially in bangladeshi families. and it’s seen as normal to have tobacco in the house. so girls take it up. i know lots of girls that chew paan too.

    many of my friends smoke secretly, eat polo mints and hide their fags. i know one woman who hid them in the bottom of handbag in a special area to hide them away from her mother-in-law.

    so asian women are not afraid anymore be it smoking, drinking or sex.

  5. Rav

    What an interesting article. The same holds true for alcohol and drugs – these are also on the increase in Asian communities and something that was unheard of 10/20 years ago. I also think that things have changed in this regard with more second generation Indians wanting to ‘fit in’ and appear ‘modern’. Born in India but educated here they have new found freedom not having to live in extended families and competing with the Aunty down the road in who is more ‘modern’. Increasingly, this competition has led to more alcohol and wine consumption particularly. So is it surprising we are seeing more third and fourth generation Asians following in a similar vain.

    Also, ten or twenty years ago, love marriages and inter-caste/religion marriages were unheard of but now these are common place. Is this a bad thing? Many would argue not. I dont think it matters in today’s society. Can the same be said about smoking/alcohol/drugs? Are these too down to indivisual choice? People know the dangers, the ethics and morals about it being wrong but it is ultimately their choice and their life?

  6. rani toor

    hi Nicky interesting read that many british asian women can relate to, staying in touch with your culture or conforming with the western culture are difficult and pressures on the 21st century woman are huge, however individual choice, respect and dignity steers one to do what is morally and ethically right and asian women are more than familiar with boundaries. We are all too familiar with the constraints that are imposed on asian women but lets not forget our culture and the health implications smoking has on our health and the NHS. xx
    Came across Desiblitz whilst researching cervical screening uptake in asian women, glad I did. keep up the good work.xxxx

  7. kq

    You know what? You live in Britain! Get over it!! I’m reading the same type of article which was written in the 8O’s.

  8. Dev

    The first part of this article, that rambles on about smoking and Indian culture – traditionally, women *did* smoke in the North of India in the Hindu and Muslim communities. Sikhs did not smoke, be it men or women.

    However, there was a distinction. It was considered classy to be smoking a hookah, and plebian to be smoking a “beedi”. The cigarette was a beedi replacement, so was looked down upon. It was more a class than a gender issue – or at least what I have seen of it.

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