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  1. Haroon Akhtar

    dont drink smoke canabis insted alot healthyer

  2. kully singh

    I guess because were british asians we just going to brush this under the carpet again….its the same in India we never confront our problems but why are we so self destructive?

  3. Rina

    I think a lot of asian women drink more than they did and more and more people are claiming its progression and changes for the better? Is it? Or are we just going to pretend this kind of things doesn’t happen?

  4. Raj

    Sorry, I must make it clear that I’m not attacking the writer or the article. The article itself was good. I’m just sharing my opinion. It was necessary to address the issue somehow in order to initiate such a discussion.

  5. Raj

    Wow! Interesting yet very opinionated article. Not that I support the practice of drinking yourself senseless, but I think this article is a little biased. Personally, I’ve never been to a cinema and found myself having to hurdle over drunk “BritAsian” girls surrounded by pools of vomit. Have you? Really?

    Also… I believe that BritAsian people in general are far more developed in almost every way than ever before. We now have Asian news anchors on TV, comedians, sports people etc all in the UK. The UK’s richest man is an Asian. Our cuisine is amongst the most successful the UK has ever served. Our fashion is being embraced the world over. Our music is influencing hits all over the world and our own britasian producers are enjoying chart success too. I could carry on listing the achievements of BritAsian people for a some time yet. However the point here is that with positive developments like those listed above we are also likely to see developments socially too.

    BritAsian girls getting drunk to a senseless extent is a rare event. Our parents came to the UK to give us opportunities to study, work and succeed. Much of what we’ve achieved is accountable to the fantastic opportunties we have here in the UK. When given the opportunity to party, to dress, to drink, to socialise.. it’s only natural that we embrace those elements of the culture here too.

    I don’t ever hear things like “SHOCK HORROR! BritAsian girls eat western world food more often than traditional Indian” or “BritAsian girls drink more diet coke than Tea”. These are similar developments to the one singled out by this article.

    We are developing as a people. Freedom, independence, inspiration, drive, demands and pride all play a part in each of us wanting to achieve in this life.

    I think this article has tarnished all young BritAsian women with the same vomit soaked brush. I honestly feel the right approach would be to help the minority realise that drinking in moderation is probably a better choice, rather than this whole act of naming and shaming.

    No-one is perfect. The “girls” which this article victimises, may not have any intention to harm or disrespect anyone at all. They simply want to enjoy themselves and are influenced by the drinking culture that Britain has. This does not make them bad girls. Also, if you go to a club (a distributor of alcohol) and ask girls if they can enjoy themselves without drinking, I’m pretty confident that we can all guess the answer. If you asked the same question at a “BritAsian Women Against Alcohol” gathering (a Discourager of Alcohol) you’re likely to get a totally opposing result.

    A few facts and figures would really have helped this article have more substance.

  6. jassi

    i like ma drink but only to av a laff. its bad gals gettin sick like this.

  7. sheena

    i dont think that u have to drink to have a good time. its all about control.